21st Century Judaism
Weddings
Heartfelt moments in life are expressed ceremoniously
A Jewish wedding provides an opportunity to identify and express a couple’s priorities, values, and choices in life.
Marriage is a covenant, and like the biblical covenants, made in faithfulness to stand forever, the 21st-century approach to the Jewish wedding is the one of a lover’s covenant of devotion and mutual loving-kindness
Husband and wife are not only lovers but friends who share the tasks, joys, and sorrows of life.
These time-honored customs are not just rituals but vibrant expressions of love, connection, and community passed down through the ages—each with its own story, charm, and significance.
Embracing these rituals, is not just honoring the past but breathing new life into it, making it vividly relevant to the moment you are living.
“May you always be happier than you are right now!”
The Beauty of the Tradition
The Wedding Ring
The wedding ring is a permanent symbol of the couple’s love and commitment to each other.
It is circular to fit the finger but is also a symbol of infinity – as it has no beginning or end. It represents eternal love between a couple, as just like the shape, it is never-ending.
According to kabbalah and Jewish tradition, the wedding band should be pure gold and unadorned. It should not be set with a stone or contain any inscription.
In Jewish tradition, the wedding ring is placed on the index finger of the right hand during the wedding ceremony. There are several interpretations, but the most recognized explanation is that the index finger is considered the closest to your heart.
The Chuppah
The power of the couple
Crushing any obstacle they may face
“Marriage is a covenant, which in Judaism is made by breaking or cutting something.”
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At 21st century Judaism , we do not charge for performing the ceremony, consulting, or providing any needed assistance.